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An open letter to Sally Kern

Sally,

I hate that I’m having to write you a second time on the same topic, but I just can’t see myself ignoring your actions.

The last time I wrote you, it was after the video of your anti-gay remarks first becoming public. I was very courteous and simply asked that, since you are an elected official representing a diverse group of people, you use your words more responsibly. There is a time and place for expressing your own religious beliefs, but it’s not when you’re in front of an audience as Rep. Sally Kern. You have a duty, which you accepted by choice, to use your actions and words to represent your constituency. Preaching hate doesn’t serve any one’s interests.

After I wrote you, I had moved on and let the whole situation go. I was still extremely disappointed in you and those who openly supported your hate speech, but I figured I had done what I could.

But now I hear you’re holding a rally in the state capital condemning homosexuality, and defending your right to free speech. I have a real issue with this sister.

1) Again, you are an elected official who represents a constituency of mixed religions, races and orientations. You accepted the responsibility of furthering their causes and rights. If you feel you can not do, step down. But you have no right to come out publicly against gay rights, and then still be considered impartial or capable of performing the duties you were elected for. When you accepted your office, at no point did you agree to represent all people equally, except the homosexual community. If you can’t treat all humans equally, even those you disagree with, you have no right representing a segment of our population.

2) It’s called the separation of church and state. I had assumed that they gave Representatives a crash course in the constitution. As I see it, you, being a public official and representative of the state, are violating the rights of your gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender constituents by openly coming out against them based on out-dated religious rhetoric. For that reason alone, you should be removed from office.

I’m not silly enough to believe your opinions of the gay community will ever change, and I’m not saying they should. I’m saying that you have proven incapable of representing all people equally, which is the foundation of your job. You are free to believe and speak as you like but, if that’s the path you choose, it’s in direct conflict with being a public representative.

3) I hate how you use the Bible as a weapon. I heard that you, and other anti-gay leaders, spent a majority of the rally condemning the homosexual lifestyle based on the Old Testament. Wow. That’s all I can really say.

Sally, I am worried about you. The part I find most offensive about this whole situation is how you use the Word of God to hurt others because of your intolerance. You have offended me as a gay man, but I’m more offended as a Christian. I am really concerned about anyone who can read the Bible, a book filled with love, tolerance and the message of peace, and represent it with so much venom. I can tell you I have read the same book several times and I don’t find the blatant hatred of which you speak.

The Old Testament fueled rantings are also out of date. In the same book, it says that I can sell my daughter into slavery, as long as it is for a fair wage. That a man should be stoned for “knowing” his wife during her menstrual period (or when she is “unclean”). Also, according to the Old Testament, we should be stoning adulterers to death, not allowing them to divorce. Since you are committed to honoring the code of the Old Testament, I expect to see you speaking out on these issues as well. If you do not, I’ll take it that my assumption is correct: that you are using religious ideals to mask your own understanding, fear or hatred of the homosexual community.

It all comes back to this: as a woman of God, you have an obligation to sow peace, acceptance and tolerance. It’s a directive that we, as Christians, are to be ambassadors of Christ, and try to live as Christ-like as possible. So ask yourself this simple question: how would Jesus treat the homosexual community? Even if you truly believe homosexuality to be a sin, you should be showing gay individuals the love of Christ with your words and your actions. Instead, you are choosing a path that leads to division and alienation, something Jesus would have never considered.

I know you’ll probably never read this and, if by some chance you do, you’ll dismiss my point of view because I am homosexual myself. In your eyes, I’m part of that “agenda” you keep referring to. But, I want to say one last thing to you: if wanting to be treated fairly, and with respect, by the officials we elect makes me part of the “Homosexual Agenda”, I’ll wear that label proudly.

If you find yourself incapable of doing the job you were elected to do, represent a group of people with mixed backgrounds, then you need to do the honorable thing and step aside. If you do not, the legacy you leave behind will be one that brings shame to your family for generations to come.

Sincerely,

Ryan Arrowsmith

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Lawrence King, 15, shot for being gay

Lawrence King, a 15-year-old boy who self-identified as gay, was shot in the head on February 12 in class by a schoolmate. A week prior to his death, Lawrence had asked his fellow classmate, 14-year-old Brandon McInerney, to be his Valentine. (Some of you may have heard about this crime on Ellen’s daytime talk show).

On February 12, 2008, Brandon, while in the middle of a normal class, on a normal school day, took out a gun and shot Lawrence in the head. Lawrence was pronounced brain dead later that day.

To make matters worse, Lawrence was already struggling through a difficult life. At the time of his death, he was living in a home for battered and abused children.

As a gay man, I probably hear about more on-going hate crimes against the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community than the typical American, but this one is especially devastating to me.

Lawrence King was still learning about himself and still maturing as a man but, even at a young age, he knew that his sexuality should be a non-issue. Lawrence set the standard that the gay community should live by: be proud and be yourself. But, tragically, others around Lawrence weren’t able to find the same acceptance of his sexuality as he was.

When I discuss gay rights with heterosexuals, I’m always told how much better things are now for the gay community. Yes, there are states offering same-sex marriage and civil unions, but that’s more impressive than it sounds. One state currently offers full marriage rights to same-sex couples, while the others offer civil unions, which, as I’ve stated before, aren’t offering the same level of protection to gay couples as heterosexual couples enjoy.

But, the truth is, we still live in a world where a child can be so threatened by the idea someone might perceive as being homosexual, he’s willing to kill someone else. This Brandon kid was so troubled by Lawrence’s misguided advance, he took a gun out and shot him in the head. In class. With other children and faculty around.

The other frustrating part is the lack of media coverage. It’s as if people want to believe that this couldn’t happen, so they ignore the fact that they are still promoting a culture of hate or intolerance. In fact, a recent discussion within the 9rules community proved both infuriating and disappointing at the same time. (link) I was shocked and disgusted to learn so many people think that calling using the word gay to describe something ugly, unwanted or uncool is acceptable. And this is what we’re teaching our children; to associate the word gay, which represents millions on individuals, with negativity, or a lesser social status.

I am an optimist; I believe things are changing and, in the future, being gay won’t be any more of an issue than having red hair. But how many people have to die before we get there? How many 15-year-old children need to be buried before we take a step back as a society and realize that, while we may not fully agree with each other’s lifestyles, violence is never the answer?

So, today I am taking a stand. I am going to be more vocal about gay rights, and I’m going to make sure I’m doing everything I can to make life easier for my fellow LGBT community. We might not be able to change the world overnight, but hopefully we can make it better for the next generation of gay children. Maybe we won’t be reading about another Mathew Shepard, Lawrence King or

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But, most of all, be conscious of what you do and say; someone is always paying attention. Treat your fellow humanbeings with respect. Make a difference.